Some Infinities Are Bigger Than Other Infinities

“We think of infinity as a really big number, but it’s not. It’s endlessness. Endlessness is a really strange idea in a universe that is defined by its endings.” 

-John Green

 The title is a no-brainer actually and I have to mentally slap myself for not being more creative. However this quote does come from one of my favorite books and happens to be my favorite quote from said book. (Cue in the discussion on how obsessed I am with the concept of being "infinite" I had to tattoo that in my left wrist as a constant reminder.) Anyway, for obvious reasons, I used this title because it holds true to the post...add a few words, subtract some letters and well, it's almost perfect because in reality... some infinity (pools) are bigger than other infinity (pools). I don't know if my infinity pool is bigger or smaller than your infinity pool but since I am in one, for this moment, let's just pretend I am infinite in an infinity pool. I am rambling, I apologize. But I always loved the concept of an infinity pool that looks like it's spilling out toward the sea. It is an illusion, I know... but sometimes, illusions are good too. I remember Lauren Zimmerman once saying, "You do not exist to serve the illusion. The illusion exists to serve you," and this illusion of the infinity pool definitely served me and my wonderful "illusion serving one piece swimsuit" which I love mainly because I designed it and my design philosophy is, if it's not good enough for me to wear, I won't sell it. It's as simple as that. 

This is letting go

It's time to let go. Who has heard this from someone who cares for them? Who has said it to someone they care about? I am sure at one point in anyone's life, they were on both the receiving and sending end of this saying. The thing with letting go is that most of the time, it is easier said than done. Somehow, we are wired to hang on to things even if the only thing keeping us from falling to the inevitable is the fact that we are hanging by a thread. Then it breaks and we are left with no choice but to stop hanging on... it's always better to jump than to free fall because at least you have control of the former. The thing is I have spent most of my life heavily invested on this idea of control that it is hard for me to let go. I think I need to fix things and handle things even if they are beyond repair. My least favorite feeling in the world is powerlessness and being "out of control" is never an option for me especially since I realized at a young age that I have terrible coping mechanisms. It doesn't sound easy and it is not in any way a fun life. However, recently, I have been aligning myself and putting things in perspective... I've realized that to avoid stressful situations and major diva-style meltdowns, I need to be more flexible, more capable of going with the flow and of course with that comes the ability of learning the art of letting go.

Waves Crashing: Of Rocky Shores, Rocky Roads and Hitting Rock Bottom

"Soul surfing to me is what you do when you are thoroughly in the moment- enjoying and expressing yourself on the wave and being one with the ocean."

- Tom Carrol, Australian Surfer

We encounter waves in every minute of every day. There are the light waves which make things visible and sound waves so we can hear. I was at the beach (my favorite retreat away from life and the best place for introspection) and I observed the behavior of the waves. On this rocky shore of the Punta Fuego beach, (a secret spot that I found) I could see how energy changes from one state to another and back again as the waves came crashing madly against the rocks. So I may not be on my best shape ever and I am fully crediting the fact that I am not consistent with my "gym, tan, juice" life as it is the "off season" and I am giving my body a break from the drought Labor Day at Boracay has brought upon. Just like the tides, my body also goes through changes: high and low. But no matter where the wind blows, I am comfortable in my own skin to know that I am beautiful just the way I am and my value as a person does not rely on the value stated on the weighing scale. As long as I am into clean and healthy living, I am more than happy... I am fulfilled. 

A Smile and a Ribbon

 
The beach has always been a relaxing place for me. I am definitely a beach baby and there is just something about the sand, the sea and the waves crashing against the rocks that I find very calming. Whenever I feel the need to take a private retreat from the busyness of daily life in the city, which I have to admit is quite maddening, I hop into the car and escape. Luckily, I live in a country where the beach is only about a two hour drive away. This makes clarity, introspection and soul searching within reach. I can spend days in the beach and would actually prefer to do that. I think nothing is more relaxing than a cold tropical shake, a lovely bikini and a good book and I can get lost in the moment.

Life's a Beach

Photos from my recent beach trip with my boyfriend back from KL, family and friends over at Punta Fuego, where the Sun is Always Shining. Decided to debut my new collection Glitterati black + animal print bikini and had a blast at the beach! Something about the sun, sand and sea that makes me all pumped up and happy!!!

 

And then the food....

The scenery....

xx, JL

Take me to my beach....

At the beach, life is different. Time doesn't move hour to hour but mood to moment. We live by the currents, plan by the tides and follow the sun."

Getaway Weekend: ACUATICO

Weekends are when I hibernate.
True to my weekday warrior mode, I usually go into hiding like a hermit on weekends. Usually I spend my days in bed, resting away the gruesome work week that passed but the past few weeks, I find myself out of town, traveling to the beach (on off peak season as the typhoons have been back to back here) and just tanning away. A few of my friends already took notice of the fact I am a bit tanner than I usually am (read: porcelain white China doll) but anyway, before the unnecessary babbling, let me show you some photos of my Acuatico Beach Getaway from 2 weeks ago....


Pre-Acuatico Breakfast was WAFFLES at PANCAKE HOUSE.
(NOT a smart idea before heading to the beach!)

Escape from the flurry of a bustling city and the stresses of the daily grind.
Here on Acuatico's shore, you will find solace. Here, where you will feel most alive.

I am a beach type of girl rather than the pool. I usually laze around by the pool but swim in the beach (I am just a beach baby at heart!) The beach in LAIYA is not bad. It was actually quite fun!

We stayed at the ESTANCIA VILLA which was the biggest villa (in terms of accomodation) as it can accomodate a max of 6 people (although the villa can definitely be for about 12 people as it is very big)... Estancia features a private lanai, a loft and its own view deck. It is ideal for families and small groups as it has three rooms, 2 of which have queen-sized beds while another with a twin bed. It has a living room where the family can gather, your own balcony deck and another one on the ground floor where you can get a view the pool, 2 LCD TVs, 2 telephone units, and a common bathroom area with two showers and toilets. The pit of the villa were the bathrooms as they were too SMALL. (I am very prissy about bathrooms) but the peak of the villa were the accommodations and the service. I loved it!

Family Living Room

The Master's Bedroom in the first floor.

The upstairs room.

The twin bedroom at the first floor where I stayed and which I shared with my brother, Enzo.

I dub my brother Enzo as the Scott Disick of the Philippines as he is uber chic going to the beach. So very Scott.

SWIMMING TIME!!!!!

Sarong: from abroad | Bikini: Glitterati | Feather earrings: DIY

THE HIGHLIGHT OF THE RESORT WAS THE POOL.
Seriously. It can't get better than that. It was absolutely amazing and is the main attraction of Acuatico. Here are some (read: A LOT) of photos

Isn't the pool just to die for? It features an infinity pool, a kiddie pool. a mid height pool and a bar by the pool where you can sip on your drinks while swimming.

Obligatory vain shots by the beach.....

Acuatico at night....

The OCEANO restaurant was quite delish... they offer a la carte and breakfast-lunch-dinner buffet options for the getawayers.

Breakfast was of course my chance to eat like a construction worker----

All in all, it was a great getaway weekend.... I felt very refreshed and well full after! Just the way vacations are supposed to be!


My I don't want to go and leave face!
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ABOUT ACUATICO

Acuatico Beach Resort is located 140 km (87miles) south of Manila and lies on a brief stretch of Laiya’s famous 4-km beach in San Juan, Batangas, one of the Philippines’ most popular vacation destinations. Roughly about a three-hour drive from Manila, it is the only exclusive luxury resort of its kind in Laiya with fully furnished Balinese-inspired modern villas and rooms that can accommodate a maximum number of 70 guests. All of these open to spectacular views of either the mountains or the sea. Since it opened in 2008, it has become a preferred holiday destination among local and foreign tourists. In 2009, it became the third most searched “local travel destination” according to the 2009 Year-End Google Zeitgeist, which compiles billions of Google searches.
Acuatico is a member of the Association of Laiya Resorts Owners (ALRO).
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xx, JL