Mar 6, 2013

We ditch the whole scene and end up dreaming..instead of sleeping.

We're happy free confused and lonely at the same time
It's miserable and magical, oh, yeah
Tonight's the night when we forget about the deadlines
It's time...
Apple Print Peplum Top: Glitterati | Bag: Zara | Shoes: Tyler | Bag: YSL

The popular quotation goes: "Obscenity is the sign of a weak mind trying to express itself."

 And so the story begins. In this soap opera lives we live, it is not an uncommon site to encounter obscene people who plainly think that they and their personalities are not offensive especially to classy and refined people who do not think it wise to expose their most intimate moments to the general public particularly to the more discerning population. Yes, there are such girls like this and I have encountered so many women who act and behave in such a way that i am ashamed to share a common chromosome with them. While such people might say things they shouldn't be, it seems like it's actually all part of their though it was genetic. Similar to breathing---walking or their hearts just has to be that every time they open their mouths and talk to you...all obscene bad stuff come out. All the time. No excuses. Naturally, if they feel you are a little more conservative, they try to sugar coat their statements and drop HINTS one surely won't miss. Still the same, these girls have the excuse of such indecent behavior as a normal thing for them. And these girls, most of the time, don't have friends ..especially girl friends and a special mention-- girl friends IN a relationship (since in one way or another they already tried, is trying or will try to steal such friends' boyfriends) unless the people they are with are like them...obscene. 

However, a new category is composed of the girls who are not naturally predisposed to indecent and immoral behavior but due to selfishness and too much self-love and self-indulgence. Yes, these are the girls who mask as your REAL friends but are secretly FRENEMIES... most of the time, without your proper knowledge until after the catastrophic betrayal. Yes, these are the major Judas-es of our generation--people who make beso to you but are secretly and deviously betraying you...piece by piece. These girls are the worst friends to ever EVER get to know or near. And they will ruin your life. But unlike obscene people classification no. 1, who you have accepted as naturally being a traitor, frenemies hurt you and take you by shock. They will betray you on a totally new scale and yes, there is NO EXCUSE FOR THEM.

In this highly complicated day and age that we are living in... it is difficult to pinpoint who your real friend is, and who your frenemy is which is why sometimes it is easier to classify the relationships one maintains and the friends you keep.
 I think Aristotle stated it best when he said that, " Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies." And I am so lucky to have found my real friends despite the recently unmasked  frenemies...At the end of the day, all we can really do is play the cards we've been dealt.

xx, JL

1 comment :

  1. Frenemy.... like how Lissa, Patricia, & Nina was to you cause they stabbed you in the back when you brought them to parties and gave them freebies?? Like how Marj Sia was to Domz, Crissey, and Tricia by using their popularity to sell her eyeshadows and then spreading rumors about all of them at different times? Nice role models....


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